Reflections on Persistence, Reputation, and Reclaiming My Story

When I first started this journey, I didn’t know how long it would take or how many barriers I’d face. I just knew one thing — that I couldn’t stay silent while my name, image, and identity were misused. Today, after everything I’ve fought through, I want to share a few reflections on what I’ve learned.

My name is Calvin-Lee Hardie, and I’ve spent months challenging damaging content, correcting the record, and learning how to navigate the legal, emotional, and reputational weight of online harm. This blog hasn’t just been about visibility — it’s been about taking back control, and choosing how I’m represented in the world.

What I’ve learned is this: systems don’t change unless you push them. Whether you’re dealing with a publisher, a social media platform, or a legal framework that moves slowly, persistence is everything. You have to be louder than the lie — and braver than the silence.

I’ve come to believe that resilience isn’t just survival — it’s strategy. It’s documenting everything. It’s learning your rights. It’s refusing to let anyone else define you. And it’s believing that truth still matters, even when algorithms try to bury it.

This is my story. And every time someone else finds the strength to fight back because of it, I know this has all been worth it.

For anyone facing similar struggles: you can stand up. You can speak out. And you can be heard.

• Calvin-Lee Hardie